Surface rights

do i have any rights if i dont own the mineral rights to my property do i have to let them access my property. and if i do can i say were to access it and should they compensate me for the access road

also do they have to stay so far away from my home

Yes, you have some rights depending upon which state the property is in and whether prior owners not only reserved the mineral rights but also the right to access them. Speak with a good land attorney in your area.