Greetings all. Our family owns mineral rights in ND. The rights are from my Grandparents ranch, they are deceased. My Uncle wants the heirs to begin a trust. The money is to go to eight cousins. I am one of the eight. My Uncle claims the money is to always go to a blood relative. The seven other cousins have children. I am gay and do not have children. Therefore, Uncle's rule of only blood relative is unfair to me. I have asked him about the fairness and he claims I am being petty. I believe this new trust could be written to give each cousin control of their monies. For instance, at my death my share go to my partner and or my neice. However, Uncle claims my Grandparents wanted the money to go to only a blood relative. He says me being childless is simply bad luck. He is pushing me to sign the trust. We expect the land to be leased sometime in the near future and I don't want to lose out. That said, I really feel I should not be in the trust. I don't know the ramifications of that decision.
Am I being a sore loser? Does the trust have to be written in only one way? I believe my Uncle could have the trust written to accomodate me. He is the last of four children. I know if my Mother was alive..... Anyway, this forum has many brilliant members. I look to all of your for help. I am unable to hire an attorny as I live in disability. Thank you, Rod